Where to buy a sex doll? 10 essential rules to avoid scams!

Where to buy a sex doll?


You made a decision, you will buy a sex doll. Next step: But where to buy a sex doll? You have been doing some searches in Google for « sex dolls » and, surprisingly, you found that there are literally tons of vendors! Even better: They seem to be all offering the very same silicone/TPE sex dolls.

How to choose a good sex doll vendor?

Keep in mind that a good vendor is not always the one that offers the lowest prices. In fact, it is quite the opposite. Low prices are a scam indicator. And there are a LOT of scammers out there. 

You need to understand 2 things:

1. 90% of the silicone/TPE sex dolls are manufactured in China.
2. There are literally hundreds of manufacturers in China.


Do not try to find one yourself! Good retailers did the job for you. Forget about buying a fantastic $800 sex doll in E bay or Amazon. Those companies are in fact Chinese manufacturers that are trying to sell their defective dolls.  How do I know? I tried 3 times and got screwed 3 times.

I made the mistake of trusting another “review” website. The guy made a commission because he referred me as a customer, the manufacturers sold me defective sex dolls (I didn’t know it) and I lost my money with dolls that were not at all the ones that I ordered. There was even one without a vagina! He recommended me where to buy a sex doll and I trusted him. 

« Yes but, they have good comments! »   You want to tell me.
Big companies can buy them!!

Forget also all Chinese websites amazon alike: you will get screwed! I have made several YouTube videos on how I got ripped off by those sellers.

I am the real deal, a real reviewer. I am not here to make a commission on cheap sex dolls retailers that I will refer you to.  

Out of the 100’s of dolls factories that you can find in China, no more than a dozen of them are offering you good quality sex dolls. None of them will sell you their doll for $1000. Why? Because they made deals with western vendors. Why should they screw their top retailers that are referring them 1000’s of sales every month?


So, where to buy a sex doll to avoid sex doll scams?

Avoid sex doll scams
You can read the whole story of the above picture here.

I will very soon make a list of websites that you can trust where you can buy a sex doll but for now, just follow these essentials 6 rules if you want to avoid sex doll scams and get ripped off.

Rule 1
Do not EVER buy directly from a Chinese vendor/manufacturer.  As this guy warns us in his You Tube video : « Scammers are everywhere in China » So don’t imagine for a second that they are not on the internet trying to sell you crap.


Rule 2
Do not try to buy a doll that is listed at $500 + under the average price. It has now become obvious that an $800 doll is a counterfeit, why not selling them for $1200? We make more money and we seem to be more legit. Keep in mind something: If a car seller can lie to you straight up to your face to sell you a car at all costs, how many lies can a sex doll seller hidden behind his screen tell on his website to do the same?


Rule 3
Buy a doll from a website where you can easily contact their customer service. They need to have a working phone number. They need to reply to your Email within 2 hours. (Beware of the timezone: They can’t reply if they sleep!) and their English needs to be correct and understandable. How many times have I dealt with people not understanding AT ALL what I was asking? <<Our doll VELY, VELY good my fliend. Yes, our doll exactly like pictures my fliend. You no wolly.>> 


Rule 4
Buy a doll from a company that has in stock dolls. This means that the guys are serious: They did invest some money in their business: They bought dolls and stocked them in their shop. It also means that they do have inspected dolls in their warehouse before they send them to you. (ADDED NOTE: Nowadays, Chinese counterfeiters have rented warehouses in the EU and in the US and they offer “in-stock” dolls! So you have to be careful anyway. This market is really turning into a jungle)


Rule 5
If you are ordering a custom doll, make sure to order her from a company that offers immediate delivery (see rule no4). Your custom doll can of course not be immediately deliverable but at least you will know that the guys are serious.


Rule 6
Do not EVER buy from E bay, Amazon, Aliexpress, Alibaba, and all these types of big portals. Vendors there use the same pictures as the legit manufacturers but they will sell you crap. 


Rule 7
Do not trust a “review” website that redirects you to vendors using an affiliate link: These guys are no reviewers, they are vendors in disguised. Avoid sex dolls scams by recognizing a real review website from a fake one. How do you recognize a fake one? If their offers are too good to be real, then it is not real.


Rule 8
Avoid websites offering you different prices for the same model depending on their height. This practice is deceiving you as a customer. You get the feeling that you are buying the same doll at a cheaper price because she is smaller. In fact, you are buying a completely different body. The only thing that resembles what you see on the promotions pictures will be the head. Otherwise, her breasts, tummy, hips, ass, legs, nothing will be the same.

Here is an example:

They let you think that you can buy this doll for that price:

When you look closely, you are buying something completely different.

As a customer that will trust a stranger with lots of money, you need things to be clear, no bullshit. What is described above is purely and simply bad business practice. It is exactly what websites selling cheap counterfeit dolls are doing. Not good.


Rule 9
Make sure that your supplier is selling the real brands. Some suppliers have started to sell both real brands + cheap copies of the real brands. That is their way to deal with that scourge. I personally do not think that deceiving customers by selling cheap copies without letting them know is a good business practice.

Rule 10
Avoid any “urgency” sale method like:
– Only 2 left!
– Only 59 min. 21 seconds left to benefit from this discount!

These are only made to make pressure sales. You don’t need any bullshit.
You need to buy a doll based on the most accurate information that you can get, not based on pressure.



Rule 11 Updated!
Avoid any huge discount (15% and +)
A new trend is unfortunately appearing: Legit vendors sometimes offer huge discounts to compete in the cheap doll market.
30% discount for Valentine’s day!” and you get your dream doll for $500 less!

That’s awesome until you realize that they sent you a counterfeit cheap doll. I few customers have complained to me about this lately.
They bought from a “legit list” of vendors by a well-known community. They have been scammed and still, those “legit vendors” are still
listed there. I will make an article about that situation very soon.

Keep these essential rules in mind and you avoid sex doll scams.
You are still not sure where to buy a sex doll? I got a list of honest suppliers for you.

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What do you think about this page they show much of pictures of their dolls fresh from factorie, but I want to be sure if I should order there:

Also they show certification but of course who tell if its true or not.


Thank you very much for this important information. I read in your coments that you are also not the biggest fan of silliconlovers, what is the problem with this shop?
Do they sell counterfeit dolls?

Last edited 1 month ago by Chris

Hello Tom
Could you check those two sites please
Are they legit?


Hi Tom. Do you know mysiliconedoll.com. I know Chinese but do you have any knowledge of them? Thanks


So please give us a couple of good sites to order from.


Hey is sexdoll.com a legit website? Im a first timer


what about beautiful-dolls.com? would you trust them?


Wondering if this site is real


any review for dukz  dollz?


I am affter this one https://siliconelovers.com/collections/wm-dolls/products/wm-172cm-b-rosie-leigh
And thinking this site will also be the one to buy from, seems to have nice reviews on trustpilot, first one ive really found that seems to be legit and trustworthy, tried chat support and got a hold on someone fast as well seems like a great place.

Did see you called them a cheap hooker though hah, but feel free to suggest some trust worthy sites and ill check em out havent clicked the buy button just yet 🙂

Last edited 1 year ago by Michael

I must admit that she is amazing beautiful.  I will put that one near the top of my list when I pick my first doll

Barnaby Sandino

That site looks extremely sketchy and it messes up my phone


WoW, you got me back down to earth. I’m inquiring on the internet and luckily I found you. I’m just looking for a doll 140 cm high and I’m also finding it at $ 800-$ 1000 but from what you’re telling me it’s not a good idea. Anyway thanks for all the advice, this sector is beautiful and I like to collect some pet dolls but it must become a healthy sector and without scams.


Is Siliconlovers a legit site? They have the 15% discount going on now. 


I want this one I put downloaded


Hi Tom, do you have any experience buying from http://dolldesire.com/? Is Jeff a trusted vendor?


Jeff is quite popular on Doll Forum though. Maybe the most popular one. Would you interact with him to find out?


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Levin james

Can you inject Botox into sexdolls? Came accros fillersworldshop.com


I noted one of the posters below who is disabled. I am pretty much in the same boat, only being totally blind has it’s own set of problems. To begin with, most good quality dolls are out of my reach price wise. The second is that a lot of the web dealers that carry these products don’t have very accessible websites. They also don’t do a very good job at description. So, I am left in the dark trying to figure out a website and hoping that if I do order something, it will be as advertised. And yes, don’t… Read more »


Where can I get just a lockable storage case for a doll, 5-07? All my searches just bring up dolls with option to add case to doll order.

fat doll

haha,the joylove doll really like to quote lowest price while the body is not same as show


I am looking to buy my first sex doll but reading many of these experiences I like to get the same doll as in pictures and not getting scammed. I think the best way to get the doll that I exactly want is to get to look at it physically in real life. Are there any sex shops where they are displaying sex dolls for customers to see? Is it possible to buy sex dolls without ordering it from online, in other words, buying it from the stores physically?


Hello. I know you say don’t buy a cheap doll. But what if you are disabled and only can spend 1100.00 max is there a site or mamafactur that you suggest? I don’t want to feel creepy and buy a 3 foot doll but cannot handle a 5+ foot doll. Do you have any suggestions?

Jonathan Gutierres

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Jonathan Gutierres

I’ve been reading other reviews on this site…thumbs up Tom…it’s great what you doing helping alot of us…i first timer too…i seen one guy talked about WM dolls…the doll i want is WM head and WM body…i took it not to deal with them directly…cause they in China…even tho they make the dolls…i took not to deal with them directly…for safety and secure reasons…is this true ? Or am i wrong ? Gets confusing for sure to find the right vender…to make your doll….you’d think the company would be professional business…keep customers happy…business makes money…ceates more business to keep money… Read more »


I this one a safe buy?


Thanks for all the time and effort that you have made to help all of us beginers and exuse me for my Spelling. I am 55 years old. I have been on my way of bying my first real lovedoll during several years, I did actualy order one from Wish some time ago, the pix where realy nice and the price was to good to be true but I still got it. I reseved an inflatable doll that broke the first time I tryed to use it. I have before and after that gotten several toys and 2 torsos and… Read more »


Thank you so much for the info!! I’m looking to buy my first. I have no idea where to begin. Can you help me?


I want to thank you for this. I did place an order on Aliexpress before I came across your website. I was able to cancel the order luckily and I bought from a reputable WM authorized dealer. Thank you again for this as you saved me over $900. Keep up the great work.


I wish I knew of your reviews before my first purchase.

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